My Experiences & Thoughts

I have learned that

**A calm mind only can solve someone's or his own probs ..
Dont think what others are thinking about you as they are busy in thinking whar you are thinking about them

**Have "Definite Lifetime" of everything i.e have a limit that after this i wont be doing it .and
see how fast you will finish don make things and indian wedding

**Thoughts become things ...aaj nahi to kal but thoughts become things .....

**if you lose touch with your inner stillness you lose touch with yourself
and if you lose touch with yourself , you lose yourself in the world......

**suggestion should be given only in two cases once its asked or otherwise its dying situation.

**before making any blunder there is always just a point of time when we hear voice from inside to go back and rectify it ..we just need to hear it..

**universe is readily waiting to give us what we sole heartedly desire for ..
Before you do anything , think .If you do something to try and impress someone, to be loved,accepted or even to get someone's attention , stop ...stop and think.
So many people are busy trying to create an image , they die in the process.....(Salma Hayek)

**The reasonable man adapts himself to the world;the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself .Therefor all progress depends on the unreasonable man "(George Bernard shaw)

**Holding Onto anger is like grasping onto a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else.and you are the one who gets burnt ...Gautam Buddha

**icha ka ho to acha ..icha ka na ho to zyada acha ..(Hariwanch Bachchan)

**i have learnt that from Mohit (my husband) Be sad, be depressed ,be surprised ,and be happy but for subtle small time and move on ........move on (Mohit told it )

**Dont fear from death but fear from Unlived life ...........loved it .....from a movie

**you are average of the 5 people you are most close to in your day to day life.(I copied it )

**if there is some problem in world then there is solution for it and if someone can find that solution then i can be that someone.(I liked it ..thought it too :) )

**Nothing is too small to know and too big to attempt (I read it )

**The secret of getting started is breaking
your complex, overwhelming tasks into
small manageable tasks, and then
starting on the first one (I experienced it !!)

**The day you are happy because of someone else .you are creating void in happiness and readying to be sad again (I faced it !!)

**I have felt that smile can be heard in the words someone is saying ..(I sensed It )

**I feel that we spend whole of our lives, in teaching how to do any task , to a such a non sense entity; who cant take even a single decision, what to do in a situation by itself .
I have to program it for all situations in the world .
Still i say it is smarter than me ...what an irony
then i realize how enormously programmed i am from God !! (I felt it )



**just stating that we are girls doesnt soothe the fact that we leave our parents for ever for someone (I say that !! )

**sons are sons till they meet their wives, daughters are daughters throughout their whole lives


**Its more satisfying to realize you are there in a job not only for perk but also for work !!(I Realized !!)

**i cant say women are better than men or not but i can firmly say that they are NO WORSE !!(I read it)

**sometimes when one is quiet doesnt mean one is silent , because otherwise crowd of dumbs should achieve state of meditation ,in silence they thrive in.(i thought it !! )

*** i was condescendingly surprised to see violence , but when i started it instead of still condemning ..... i understood the rationale behind it !!!(i got to know it)

**Irony is: I shd have been deluged with gud frends,in need time, w.r.t number of requests, i get from many, who want to be my orkut/facebook friend everyday-- (i learnt that ppl still dont understand what a friedn mean !! )